The ODA Code of Practice is binding on members of the Association.She passes on some other free advice: dress like you’re going to a farm, even though you’re going to dance. Off the Grid Menlo Park happens every Wednesday, rain or shine, from 5 to 9 p.m.in the Caltrain station parking lot, which isn’t usually a space you associate with lively crowds but it works.Midpeninsula Regional Open Space District: (650) 691–1200Filoli is a country house on a sprawling estate in Woodside that boasts amazing gardens set amid 670 acres and just celebrated its 100th anniversary. Order at the counter, grab a table under some string lights and heat lamps on the outdoor patio and wait for your food with your date. — 9 p.m.3068 Cabrillo Hwy N., Half Moon Bay (650) 560–8363Let us paint a picture for you.General admission is and includes access to the house and gardens, which flourish in spring and summer when flowers are in bloom. Also notable on the menu: the pulled pork sandwich and the mac attack (fried macaroni and cheese). You’re wandering around the middle of the woods in La Honda with your date (we’ll explain later) and you’re absolutely desperate for a place to sit down and talk over some beers. This dive bar might be as offbeat as it gets and in the best way. Some advice: while there is a food menu, it’s short and mostly bar food — but we’re certainly okay with that, if you are.